US India nuclear deal

Two cultures are trying to become one. Philosophically it sounds good,but is it feasible ? is it practical ? will it last ? The US is an economic leader and naturally will like to dictate. india has its resources and till so far was fool enough not to make good use of it to become an economic power. but times have changed. The US has caught on to the nuclear edge of India.But it is yet to recognise its other powers. Its really a learning process - shall i say - for both of them.
Why cant we have some patience and let the US learn about India - be it through the nuclear eye. Only please dont slip this time. history shows you have slipped too many times and allowed others to lord over you!!